Tips to Find A Real And Legit Sugar BabyPosted by LookingForSugarBabies.com |
Sugar daddy relationships are great, you get to experience the joy of having a sugar baby who meets your desires. While not always called sugar daddy or sugar baby relationships, this type of relationship has been around almost since the beginning of time. Not everyone is interested in this type of relationship though, and it hasn't always been easy to find a legit sugar baby.
Now, with access to the internet, we have the ability to find a sugar baby much easier. Not every website and not every profile is a legit sugar baby though. To help you when looking for sugar babies we have created a list of some tips for finding a genuine sugar baby.
Create A Good Profile
It might seem a little odd that your profile will help you find a legit sugar baby but it is a big part of the search process. A good, catchy profile will help you to interest real sugar babies instead of making them turn to other people. You should spend a good amount of time setting up your profile to ensure that it is the best it can be.
Here are a few things you can do to make your sugar daddy profile optimum:
- Several high-quality and realistic photos
- Write creatively to make the text catchy
- State your interests
- MInimize sexuality
- Spell and grammar check everything
Analyze Their Sugar Profile
Along the same line, you want to spend time analyzing the profiles of potential sugar babies. In many cases, you will be able to determine whether or not a sugar baby is real just by looking through their profile. This is one of the reasons that having a dating site with actual profiles is better for finding real matches.
A big red flag that a profile is fake is that it will contain more than a few spelling and grammar mistakes. It may look like the profile was written by someone who speaks and writes in another language. Two or three mistakes may not be big but if the profile is full of mistakes you want to be cautious.
Profile pictures are also a great indication of whether or not a profile is legit. Most sugar babies aren't models so if you see photos that seem like modeling photos you want to be cautious. You can reverse Google image search an image to see if it is a stock photo or stolen from somewhere else. Photos that also look photoshopped should set off red flags.
Profiles that seem too good to be true should also be another sign that you are dealing with a fake sugar baby.
Take all of these into mind and analyze any profile that you come across. There are plenty of things to look out for on a profile but these are some of the biggest red flags. The best thing to do is listen to your mind, many times something in the back of your head will let you know if the profile you are looking at is wrong.
Spend Time Communicating
Communication is important for any sugar relationship but your initial communication can tell you a lot about the person you are talking to, including whether or not the person is real. Obvious signs that you are talking to a fake person include being asked for money right away, a sugar baby being overly sexual in her first message, and/or a sugar baby who tries too hard. Those are just the obvious signs.
Something that you should look for when messaging with a potential sugar baby is spelling, just like you should with a profile. However, spelling and grammar mistakes might be a little more common when messaging as opposed to in a profile. You are talking with a live person after all. You are looking for a large number of spelling and grammar problems and/or someone who always seems to word things in ways that don't make sense. Those will be indicators that you are talking with a fake person.
Messages that come almost right away can be a red flag, especially if the messages are on the longer side. It is a sign that the person is just copy-pasting what they are trying to say. Anyone who copy-pastes every message or a lot of messages is someone that you want to avoid.
A sugar baby messaging you who keeps trying to steer a conversation in one direction, such as towards payment, towards sending pictures, or similar things should be a red flag. They may just be highly interested or focused but often times this is a sign of someone who is just there for the money and not to provide you with an equal relationship. It might even be a sign that they are just there to take your money and not provide anything at all.
Don't Go For The First Option
Rarely is it a good idea to jump right into a sugar baby relationship as soon as you join the website. If you have a message from someone right away and are interested in them, give it some time. Talk with others on the site to get to know how they interact. The knowledge you gain will help you to determine whether the person you originally found is someone you should be looking to move forward with.
This doesn't mean that you shouldn't take the first option after you have given it some time and talked with others. Just be open to all of the options on a dating site as there are usually many. Many first messages are ones from fake profiles that see that you are a new user.
Find a Legitimate Site
A key to find a sugar baby who isn't fake is to turn to a legitimate sugar dating site. Even though there are many legitimate looking sugar baby sites on the internet, they aren't all designed equally. Make an effort to find a real sugar dating site that has a high level of quality, many users in your area, and features to make the search easier (i.e. good filters, quality profiles).
Many dating sites will let you sign up for free to determine how many users they have in your area. We highly recommend doing this as you will be able to find out whether the site is legitimate or not but also if it will work for you.
Keep in mind that when looking for sugar babies there are a lot of red flags that you can keep an eye out for. Just because these are common red flags does not mean they are in every case. Humans are unique and that means that sometimes a legit sugar baby might emit a red flag. Our main goal with this article is to make you cautious when you spot potential red flags.
Whenever you go to search for a new sugar baby, take a moment to consult this list. These are the best tips for those looking for sugar babies to ensure they find a legit sugar baby. Have you found any other tips that can help you find a sugar baby? Let everyone know in the comments down below!